There are many ways to have sex, but there is only one way to have good sex —-give and receive pleasure.
Making sure your partner feels satisfied after a sexual encounter is a question of many things but following a rulebook to making her orgasm is not one of them.
Female sexuality is as diverse as ever evolving; anyone who wants to please their women in bed has to take the time to listen and learn. While this article provides tips for pleasuring your woman, it is not a follow-all set of rules to satisfy your woman in bed.
Instead, it is a set of suggestions you can try with your partner to figure out what she likes and how to get her to cloud nine.
How to Pleasure a Woman in Bed
If you are interested in making your woman sexually fulfilled, you must set aside your ego, probe, and get feedback whenever you try something new.
Negative feedback can be disappointing, especially when you feel you have done an excellent job, but you must always listen and learn.
Ultimately, no matter how good a job you think you have done, it is only your woman who can either affirm the success of your efforts or disprove it.
Tip 1 – Don’t Go In
Sex is better enjoyed for your woman when you deprioritize penetration. There’s a lot more to sex than penetration. While penetration can be enjoyable, you need to build things up first before going in.
Tip 2 – Sensual Massages
Sensual massages are a great way to arouse your partner sexually and get them in the mood for sex. You should invest in sweet-smelling massage oils. These will not only aid the massage but will also set the olfactory scene for sex.
Tip 3 – Foreplay
The foreplay will make your partner properly aroused and ready for action. Foreplay intensifies arousal and can even cause intense amounts of sexual pleasure before penetration. Lots of foreplay never hurt anyone, but rushed sex does.
Tip 4 – Pay Attention to the Clit
For most women, the clit is the fulcrum of pleasure. It is where they feel the most stimulation. Rub the clit and alternate between intense massages and soft rubs, and pay attention to her reactions, so you know what makes your partner feel really good.
Tip 5 – Watch and Learn
You can watch your partner masturbating and making herself come. This will give you an idea of the things that get her going. So you know what exactly to do the next time you lay your hands on her.
Tip 6 – Slow and Steady Actually Wins the Race
Take things slow! This probably isn’t the first time you hear this, but it is as true as it gets. You can’t rush things with your partner in bed and expect some magic orgasm.
Tip 7 – Set the Sex Playlist on Play
The sex playlist should be something you have carefully curated together. It should include your favorites as well as hers. Set the scene with some interesting music. All our senses work together to bring us an intense feeling of satisfaction.
Tip 8 – No Pressure
Pressure except on the clit is never a good idea for sex. Do not put yourself under pressure to perform, nor should you pressure your partner into consenting to experimentation she is not comfortable with.
Tip 9 – Communicate
Ask. Tell. Communicate.
Communication before, during, and after sex is very important. You have to know your partner’s expectations and how you can fulfill those expectations if you have met those expectations.
Tip 10 – Variety is important
There’s nothing more boring than boring sex. If you want to keep the excitement in your relationship, you must keep switching things up. Try oral sex, try sex toys, play around with fetishes, try different sex positions, anything but ‘vanilla’ sex all the time. If she is into threesomes, hire a cam girls in live webcams.
Tip 11 – Cuddles
Intimacy has a lot to do with whether sex is good or not. Intimacy outside the bedroom is what translates into intimacy during sex. Make sure you make cuddles and other non-sexual touches a thing in your relationship.
Tip 12 – Enthusiasm
You have to show that you are excited about the whole encounter. Moan as loudly as you can for me and participate as actively as possible.
Tip 13 – Prioritize her orgasm
Ejaculation is not the end all for sex. Prioritizing your woman’s orgasm just as much as you prioritize yours will allow you to pay attention to her needs and how she can get that desired orgasm.
